Sunday, 12 March 2017

Try it if it scares you?

People often ask you to try something new that scares, as well as excites you, at the same time. Well, I beg to differ. Not that risking your life and decisions for your dreams is bad, but risking it for someone else who solely owns the right to destruct it, is. Take risks, take chances, try something exciting too but only if you are responsible for the outcome.

Taking risks because someone else seems right one to fulfill it for you would only lead to disappointment. For example, Want to be a writer? Risk everything, fight for your dream but don't rely on someone else to help you accomplish it even if they have all the means to do so. If you do that, then and there, my friend, you might have taken a wrong road. Not just it would make you dependent and negligent but lands you in a fool's paradise. And when you realize the other person were in a slack the whole time you thought things were important to them, it is too late.

Hence, I say, if anything excites you, as well as scares you, at the very same moment, be it, someone arrival in your life, a relationship, your dream or anything for that matter, do not ever let anyone be the helmsman of your life or ship. Be your pilot and never keep hopes and expectations from something that keeps you as a layman or spectator of the result.

Do not fear to try something new and exciting if the outcome lies in your efforts. But run away from something that requires someone else's efforts for its long-term survival. It could be your life but someone's pass time. That's the only bridge and difference. 

Friday, 10 March 2017

A sigh from a Hopeless Romantic!

Today, I saw a movie named 'love on the sidelines' and I just thought why people call themselves hopeless romantics. Also, somewhere or the other, it made me realize that I am one of the same too. Shocking as it was! Well, knowing you don't have a love-life makes you wanna have it more. The more you stay single, the more you see happy couples singing their love melodies. Why does it have to be this way? Why do we call ourselves hopeless romantic? Is it because we are hopelessly waiting for the impossible to happen or is it because we are pressurized by the defined angles of the society(rather movies), that we often think that someone is going to pop out and make it a happily ever after! Cliché isn't it? Life, as we know, isn't as smooth as a movie. It doesn't have a happy ending in two hours, even two days for that matter. Is there a happy end for me? I am sure there is an end, but we can't possibly know everything from a trailer. A sigh from a hopeless romantic!